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Love - an ongoing affair...
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Foreplay includes hugging, kissing, cuddling and
it should be an all-day, ongoing affair for an exciting
and fun-filled time. Build up the passion throughout the
day in order to enjoy a passion-filled night. Making love
can be more fun if you display your love to her. Always
compliment her on the way she looks, the way she
dresses-up, etc. Call her up frequently and let her know
how much you love her. Leave a love note for her. Surprise her with
roses or by taking her out for dinner or by gifting her
with something she always wanted to buy.
Such small but essential things keeps the love from waning
away and helps in building up love and trust for each
other.
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Get into the mood
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Setting the mood is extremely
essential for a good foreplay. You can have an aromatic
bath or give a sensual massage to each other. A
candle-light dinner with soft music for accompaniment is
the right example for setting the mood for a
passion-filled night.
A shared shower can be extremely exciting as you can
arouse her by lathering her body and0 spending extra time in the erogenous zones, like her breasts, buttocks, back and stomach.
Aromatic oils should also be used for giving the right
effect. Just by sprinkling some fragrance on the sheets
will serve as a good add-on.
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The Touch Factor
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The touch factor is main in
communicating your feelings to her. The way you touch and
feel her will indicate the amount of love you have for
her. Ideally ask her to lie down and close her eyes, then
work your fingers over her body smoothly in circular
movements. Gently press her face, breasts and stomach,
then run your fingers through her hair. In a way gently
massage her body and let her relax. Both of you can
practice sensual massage on each other for better results.
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Mouth-to-Mouth
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Kissing is the best part of a
foreplay. Spend more time on each others lips, bite them softly or lick them gently. Touch the comers of
the mouth with your tongue and kiss with different grades of intensity.
Open each others' mouth gently and play with your
tongue. Do not try to experiment on new methods of
kissing, instead try to enjoy the moment and concentrate
solely on the mouth.
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Steps to an effective foreplay... |
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- Start by unbuttoning your shirt and she her dress slowly while maintaining eye
contact. Start a passionate kiss.
- Keep undressing while kissing and slowly move downwards to the nape of
her neck , her shoulders....
- Then slip your shirt off and let her feel your chest and shoulders.
- Kick off your shoes with flair and quickly remove your socks.
- Let her unzip your zipper, and then pull your pants down. Similarly
help her in getting undressed.
- By this time the passion would have build up enough to last an entire
night.
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Dream lover
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Sharing your erotic dreams
with each other will help in enhancing your sexual life.
Try and copy the dream sequence and match your
satisfaction levels. Experiment new things and keep
working on them till you find bliss. Maybe with practice,
one day you will achieve the status of a dream lover.
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